Watch out girls!

So, athleticmichiganmale (yahoo) is very rude.  He feels that a woman should do all the work for him when it comes to dating/hanging out.  That him being out of town is enough justification to his lazy behavior.  He is extremely passive aggressive and he feels that this is okay. So last week he said that maybe we should hang out.  He actually asked me to clear my schedule all weekend to hang out with him (weirdo) and I said no… we could go somewhere where we could meet but that was it.  So Thursday he said that he’d like to come over and hang out Friday night around midnight or after (yeah right!!! see where he’s going here?) and I told him NO.  I told him that he could NOT come over so late at night.  So he thought I was being silly and I stopped talking to him that night.  On Saturday afternoon while I was biking he asked if we were meeting.  I asked him for a place and a time and he replied asking me where I wanted to go.  Now, understand that drinking and bars are not in my top list of “hangout places” so I wasn’t feeling like getting intoxicated with a complete stranger from out of town.  So I said that I was biking and that he should figure out where he wanted to go and at what time.  He then said that I was being ridiculous and that I was a nutcase.  So I told him “later” and I thought I wouldn’t hear from him again.  BUT! NO! later at night he IM’ed me and he reiterated how much of a bitch I was and how upset he was.  So I just took it and told him that I took all the blame and that I wished him luck.  I thought that would be the end of it but NO!! he had to IM me again tonight.  So we got into it again (same crap from last night) and then he started trying to offend me with comments about how I am the reason why people end up missing and stuff like that.  Then he said that I should go back to school because I had a lot of typos.

OMG!!! I thought he was using slang but he said: “you are the reason why people end up missing”

I didn’t get that at first… but now that I think about it, it is very scary.  Does it sound like a threat?  I think so. 

 

Hmmm I blocked him.  I don’t know what he meant by that comment but please watch out.  It is extremely scary, now that I think about it.  Was he trying to say that because I didn’t go out I’d end up missing?  he actually laughed when he said that the first time and he said it a couple times. 

 

Hmmmm!!!!!! IDK what to think.

 

I’m a little bothered about it.

Whelping Puppies

So according to my predictions Nisha's puppies were due the first week of August but they came on the 23rd of July. So that morning I noticed that Nisha hadn't eaten anything. She had a yellow/green creamy vaginal fluid at around 2pm which I washed in the bathroom since it was kinda sticky. Her belly felt harder than in previous days and she kept drinking water and peeing a lot. I went to work and I worried that maybe she was suffering from an infection so I had my friend check on her later that night. Jamie came over and let both Nico and Nisha out. Nisha went out twice to pee but other than that didn't eat or do much. Jamie worried that maybe the puppies would come early so she adviced me to get her box ready. I planned on getting that ready on the weekend since I'd be off work. So that was before 7pm. For a couple hours I was a bit worried about Nisha but after 9 pm I had this feeling of calm. I left work at 11pm and when I came home I found Nico on edge and Nisha was very happy and eager to go outside. Her back was very dirty and she appeared much skinnier than she was. I feared the worst. I let her out and she peed like 4 times and then she ran inside to a corner of the house. When I walked behind here I noticed there were three little puppies in the corner. They were perfectly clean and they were crying for mommy. I let Nisha take care of her puppies while I got her whelping box ready. I lined it with a plastic bag and I put some t-shirts and then I moved each puppy carefully and then Nisha positioned herself in the box. After that she was fine but I noticed that she was not very comfortable so a few days later I bought a plastic container, like the ones used to store things under the bed and there she has enough room to move around and the puppies can also crawl around if they don't want to be together all the time.
We just went through the first full week and they are definitely bigger... already 4 days into week 2 and I'm eager to see them open their eyes. Nisha doesn't spend as much time with them and she likes to socialize with me and Nico in the living room also I think that she likes the living room because of the AC.
Nisha:
Week one... Nisha had a hard time balancing her bodily functions and her motherly insticts. She had a little bit of diarrhea and I constantly had to wash the carpet for the fist 5 days. She was on Purina's Pro Plan food and I don't think that she liked that too much. I switched her food to Iams Healthy food - puppy and she is doing much better now. She goes out to pee regularly but she can hold it while I'm at work and she goes potty in the morning and at night.

Puppies:
The puppies still need stimulation to poop and they only nurse. Once they open their eyes I will try to introduce them to hard food moist in water. They probably won't start eating dog food for another couple weeks but I have to make the introduction.


To be continued...